There's this lovely newsletter called The Moon Lists that arrives in my inbox sporadically, always just when I need it. It's a list of prompts, topics for journaling, ideas for reconsidering how you're living or not living. One prompt from a recent dispatch: 'PHANTOM LIMB: Name something you miss but -- if offered -- you don't actually want back.' A curious provocation! Missing without longing, a new way of considering the things and people and ideas we leave behind.