Decoding dating etiquette is notoriously difficult - especially figuring out what the appropriate move is after a first date that's not quite the right connection. Etiquette experts weigh in on whether it's more polite to silently part ways or send a first date break up text. Some experts believe that if there isn't a connection and no plans are discussed, it's appropriate to simply part ways without a text. However, if there are tentative plans or future dates, it's courteous to send a text. Others argue that it's better to let a budding romance fizzle out as long as both parties appear to be taking that route.